Woman, have learned to be picky in life. They like a particular brand of ice cream. They enjoy going to certain stores for shopping. Very often, they prefer being called in a special way. By the same token, there are things they will never try, stores they will never set foot in. And they especially hate it when they are being referred, say, "the wife".The hard part is when it comes time to let us men do easily. Communication is an important, if not the most important, aspect of any meaningful relationship. To make sure your friends understands your preference, here are some advices:
1. Never lead a friend on. There are a million things you can do to let us know that we should move on. At best, he can remember three. Thus, make sure you take the most irritating ones. Of course, once you succeed, you can start the next set. Just let him know you think of him as a brother or a good friend (as the girl a met did today) this is guarantee to end is interest in you over night, so if this is not you intention don’t use this one.
2. Carrot with stick (no domestic violence here). If you dangle yourself to him but never let him feel like he is getting anywhere, this will frustrate him in to leaving you alone. I am getting a hard lesson in this area right now with my new special friend. You do not need to speak out all the time; body language are fine too, just make sure he gets it. And pay attention to any improvements he is making (ie. Not calling you has much as he did before), and REWARD him. Let him know you appreciate the effort. You should carrot in public and stick in private.
3. Third just stop calling him, this is sure to let him know that you are not interested.
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