Why Are You Single?

So you are still spending weekdays alone instead of sharing bully-beef and rice in bed with your special someone? Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why? Below are few of the most common scenarios of why people haven't found their soul mates. Take some time for honest self-discovery and find out what makes you be single.

1. Too busy to think about love.With all of life's demands these days, taking time to find a partner will be difficult. You are always busy working and going to school. But you should be smart. Make a list of traits you'd like a potential partner to have. Then, figure out a few places where you'd find the most people with the similar traits.

2. Too scared of heartbreak.Are you a really bad "breaker"? You find that you sometimes end up falling in love and then failing before you get our foot in the door. This is most likely to happen because you place emphasis on what will happen next. Relax, trust yourself and believe that it will always be someone you can handle. If you trust me with your heart I promise not to take it for granted as your foolish ex back home did.

3. No one has met my criteria yet.Maybe your list is filled with too many specifics, such as he must be Donald Trump or Tom Cruise or live on the same block. Then you're going to find it difficult to meet anyone. You should allow yourself to be open to new ideas.

4. I'm still in love with my ex.How can you create a future with someone if you're not looking forward to it? Each day spent avoiding the others is a day wasted. Do whatever necessary to get over it (please.., please…), and move on. Life is full of surprises, twists and turns. Let go of your past so you can meet someone better and more suitable for you soon. Someone, who will hang out with you even in a parking lot.

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Why are women so picky, and how do they let men know

Woman, have learned to be picky in life. They like a particular brand of ice cream. They enjoy going to certain stores for shopping. Very often, they prefer being called in a special way. By the same token, there are things they will never try, stores they will never set foot in. And they especially hate it when they are being referred, say, "the wife".
The hard part is when it comes time to let us men do easily. Communication is an important, if not the most important, aspect of any meaningful relationship. To make sure your friends understands your preference, here are some advices:
1. Never lead a friend on. There are a million things you can do to let us know that we should move on. At best, he can remember three. Thus, make sure you take the most irritating ones. Of course, once you succeed, you can start the next set. Just let him know you think of him as a brother or a good friend (as the girl a met did today) this is guarantee to end is interest in you over night, so if this is not you intention don’t use this one.

2. Carrot with stick (no domestic violence here). If you dangle yourself to him but never let him feel like he is getting anywhere, this will frustrate him in to leaving you alone. I am getting a hard lesson in this area right now with my new special friend. You do not need to speak out all the time; body language are fine too, just make sure he gets it. And pay attention to any improvements he is making (ie. Not calling you has much as he did before), and REWARD him. Let him know you appreciate the effort. You should carrot in public and stick in private.

3. Third just stop calling him, this is sure to let him know that you are not interested.

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Turning Point

When I started blogging I wanted to write about politics but switched to writing about just about anything else because that is what I knew best. However I burnt out writing about what I do at work all day so I haven't written anything in a few days.

My desire to write has recently returned, but I am only interested in writing about politics, not relationship or my day to day life. I am out of school and work is a little slow so I have a lot of time to catch up on other things such as going out and met someone interesting, her is … (wouldn’t you like to know) any way it’s no one you know. I think feeling her has distracted me from the issues of the day like who is the front runner in the race for President. Therefore I have started a blog where I will write about political issues. Stop by and let me know what you think.

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Something's Are Best Left Unsaid

I found this image on the web. It was intended for a commercial of an IT solution. Somehow, I think this is also relevant for relationship. Have you seen "My Best Friend's Wedding"? I firmly believe that long term friendship brings out the best marriages. If you are in a relationship where your partner has a long term friend that (s)he is always talking about. Watch out. Take a hard look and do not easily believe in "(s)he is not my type" kind of thing. Love is a complicated thing, and very often we don’t know what we really want, even after repeated failures.

I have often found myself been the friend on the right of the picture, these kind of thing happen every day. Take for example; I have a friend who will remain nameless who I introduced to another friend of mind. They hit it off on the first date then the next day I saw her she wanted to stop by my house, she did we had sex and now I am left with the guilty of explaining to my buddy that she is now right for him. I didn’t would you???

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Relationship Red Flag

Here is a list of some common signs that he or she might need a kick to the curb. See them for fun and examine yourself if you want.

Men: She is married.She is lazy.She is self-centered She calls you "baby," "honey," or any variation thereof on the first date.She doesn't have any manners. She constantly calls you, even though you said you would call her.She lacks common sense or elementary education.She wants to go out all the time without you. (If you are experiencing this one, she is cheating)She expects you to pay for everything.She constantly tells you she could do better.She puts herself first. (Brenda)

Women:
He only wants to spend time with you when it’s convenient for him (ie. Booty call). He hates animals. He doesn't leave a good tip, or is rude to waiters. He tries to isolate you from your friends and family. He cannot live without you for five minutes and you've only dated for 2 days (Ok I am guilty of this one, we have be kicking it for a week now and I miss her after 5 min she is really nice). He calls you every hour on the hour. He asks you to get married within four weeks of the first date. He belittles your choices, your looks, your actions etc. He picks his toenails without shame. He puts himself first.

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Misunderstanding your woman

Brothers don’t ever put your penis, in your woman’s mouth (unless her ask you to) because this spoils your woman. Take my friend to the left for example, guys it not the BIG things you put in that counts, men often misunderstand how women award points to their man in a relationship (you start out with zero and work your way to nothing). They think that to really show how much they care for and love their significant other they need to do something really extravagant (even though the big ones goes a long long way) but little do they know that women pay just as much importance to the little things you do for them (like not falling asleep at the end). Let me tell you how to treat your woman, guys treat her like you would your car stereo; put a lot of thing into it, and don’t stop turning her ON.

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Anti-Immigration is anti-American

Increased immigration is important for both the economic and spiritual well being of the United States. Immigrants often take jobs which would otherwise go unfilled and increase overall productivity. Empirically, the United States has recently undergone a long period of increased immigration and has an economy which may have it's ups and downs, but is still the envy of the world, with significant immigrant contributions in the prominent high technology sector. The most convincing argument against immigration is usually their effect on wages, but current economic policy is already focused on fighting this wage pressure to reduce the threat of inflation and subsequent depression. As such, the chief argument against becomes an argument for increased immigration. Most importantly, let’s not forget that immigrants are people who simply want a better life, just like the so call American (European), who all came to the United States in similar situations. Helping them in their quest for a better life makes America rich in ways which transcend money.

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